Baratta, Thomas Tindaro's Obituary
Thomas was born in 1938 in the Bensonhurst neighborhood of Brooklyn, New York, to two Italian immigrants. He was, by every measure, a kid from the neighborhood—scrappy, stylish, and full of stories even before he’d really begun living them.
From an early age, it was clear he had a knack for standing out. Whether it was stealing his parents’ car and accidentally running over a cousin, or dressing up his sister in their mother’s clothes to impersonate a parent at school—Tommy didn’t follow the rules so much as rewrite them in real time.
At 17, he "exaggerated" his age to join the Air Force and become a mechanic. It was the first time he left the world he knew—and he never stopped exploring after that. His time in the service introduced him to new cultures, new people, and a lifelong desire to see the world.
After his service, he wasn’t quite sure what he wanted to do—but he knew he loved chasing beautiful women. That led him to become a hairdresser, a field in which he quickly rose to the top. He styled some of the most well-known models and actresses of his time, and it was in that glamorous world that he met the love of his life, his wife, Judy.
Eventually, he and his sister Marylou opened Marylou’s, a restaurant in Manhattan’s West Village that became a beloved local spot, a celebrity haunt, and a secret speakeasy for those in the know. This success led to the launch of other successfull restaurant & nightlife ventures including the Be-Bop Cafe, Conscience Point, Hunter's, and the Biz Bistro. His food and charisma left an impression on many, but perhaps none more than Jack Nicholson, who became a close friend and unofficial employer—flying Tommy around the world as his personal chef, giving him cameos in films like Prizzi’s Honor and Hoffa, and sharing a million stories together.
Tommy’s life became a whirlwind of legendary moments: fighting off paparazzi in Paris with bamboo sticks, summering at Lorne Michaels’ house in the Hamptons, being a Miss Universe judge, dining at the White House with President Clinton, and even dating Nancy Sinatra (to Frank’s great displeasure). Whether he was traveling through Morocco with royalty or partying with Jimmy Buffett, his stories always sounded too wild to be true—until you realized that, with Tommy, they probably were.
But he wasn’t just defined by celebrity or spectacle. He was ahead of his time in his thinking—especially about food and health. His cookbook Cooking for Jack is filled not only with great recipes, but with insight into his thoughtful, creative mind.
He was also endlessly fascinated with aesthetics, especially fashion. In Brooklyn, they called him “Sharpie Shit” because he was always dressed to impress. His wardrobe was massive, eclectic, and somehow completely cohesive despite spanning every style imaginable. He wore what he wanted and always made it look good.
In the last couple of decades of his life, he took up golf—not so much for the sport itself, but for the fashion (and for the drinks and banter at the 19th hole). His golf attire became iconic: a puffer vest in the Miami heat, round purple sunglasses, and UV-protective arm sleeves that looked like full biker tattoos. He was a walking conversation starter.
He was never shy, never embarrassed, and never afraid to say exactly what he thought. He had a gift for saying things that no one else could get away with—and somehow making it land with a laugh instead of a slap.
Later in life, he found joy in construction and design, managing projects and telling others how things should be done. He had a sharp eye and an even sharper opinion. In Italy, there’s a word—Umarell—used to describe retired men who stand around construction sites with their hands behind their backs, supervising the work with great importance. That image feels just right for him. Somewhere, he’s watching over the pearly gates, telling the angels how to rearrange the marble.
Through it all—through the style, the stories, the boldness—there was a man who loved deeply. A father who showed his love through food, through humor, and through presence. A man who never stopped asking, “Do you need anything? Can I help?” and always meant it.
His life was extraordinary. But more than that—it was full of heart.
Chapel Service will be held on Friday July 18, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. at Levitt-Weinstein Blasberg Rubin Zilbert Memorial Chapel located 18840 W. Dixie Highway, North Miami Beach, FL 33180. Arrangements by Levitt Weinstein Blasberg Rubin Zilbert Memorial Chapel (305) 932-2700
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